I believe that peer pressure is a very important topic, because it can become dangerous. Some people see peer pressure as "oh they are just having fun" which may be the case sometimes, but often peer pressure can result in mental and physical harm!
I'm a 19 year old female, and many people my age go out every weekend, drink which is absolutely fine for them. But I don't enjoy that, being in those types of social situations usually result in me feeling very uncomfortable and having a panic attack. Although people around me know this, my friends will still try and force me to do things i'm really quite scared of and it usually goes something like this "why don't you drink, come on don't be boring, why won't you come to the party or uptown, god your such a saddo. Now over the years I have got much better at saying no which is something we all need to learn.
Don't get me wrong I still find it hard to say no to people and social situations get me very anxious so saying no is still a problem but iv learn't over the years to say no more and more.
Other than drinking which is something I say no to if I don't feel comfortable where I am or who i'm with, I have been pushed in to other things such as smoking when I was 13 (I only did it the once) and other smaller thing that might seem small to others but it is peer pressure no the less.
- Drinking
- Smoking
- Bullying
- Intamacy with others
At first I didn't see bullying as peer pressure, but when thinking back I can't recall situations where people have joined in when bullying somebody because the bullies told them to and they are scared of retaliation coming to them.
Sometimes peer pressure could come in the smallest form that you wouldn't perceive as peer pressure, such as "I dare you to ride your skateboard down that hill or eat that" and it might not seem bad but if you are thinking to yourself, is it against the law? Do I really want to do this?
If the answer is "no I don't want to do this" then remove yourself from the situation, and if it is going to course harm to you or others tell your parents. Also if it is a 'friend' telling you to do these things then maybe they aren't the healthiest person to be friends with.
I have some links here that could also help.
I hope this helps some of you guys, feel free to comment if you need somebody to talk to.